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July 13, 2005

Raising Compassionate and Socially Aware Children

This article first appeared in the Homeschool Journey newsletter, November 2004


The following are excerpts from the keynote talks I gave in Fair Oaks, CA and Ann Arbor, MI at Waldorf in the Home conferences. The entire talk would be too long to reprint here (plus I strayed from my notes considerably – especially in California where I actually forgot my notes!) so I am simply reprinting chunks from it. I have left out most of the concrete examples so this does read a bit like a series of platitudes. Please indulge me in this – it was just too big a task for me to write this up properly yet I wanted to offer something to you all.


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 The talk was entitled Creating World Citizens: Raising Compassionate and Socially Aware Children  and I began with the following quote from Rudolf Steiner:

Still something further is important: namely that we recognise in the human beings who are born today as children the inclination toward what must develop in the coming generations, and that we learn to educate prophetically. ThefFact that we must educate prophetically, that we must foresee what are to be the tasks of the next generation, this is of the greatest earnestness. This stands written in the world about us as a constant challenge.

 
I believe Waldorf education, whether in a school or at home, can help us raise children who have an ecological consciousness, who are concerned about questions of social justice, who have a strong sense for morals, and who can act out of compassion and clear thinking.

Our own actions, our own sense of right and wrong, our own search for purpose, is an important grounding for our children, one which, when they are little, can surround and nurture them. By thus helping them thrive in the certainty that this world is, indeed, a good place, one helps them be assured that it is a place they want to be part of. Later, when they are older, our certainty and our clarity in our own morals and opinions will provide strong forms for our teens to push against as they develop their own sense of right and wrong.

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 I should add that homeschooling, in and of itself, is a very positive thing, an impulse toward freedom, an act which says to experts and governments, “I can do this myself”. This, aside from anything else we do, is a great example of freedom and self-initiative for our children to emulate.

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 How can Waldorf education and its foundation, anthroposophy, help us achieve our goals? First we need to understand that anthroposophy has as its basis two important aspects:

1) A spiritual basis: each of us carries a spark of the Divine. Each of us comes from the spiritual world, sojourns on this earth and will return again to the spiritual worlds. This process is repeated many times with the soul incarnating in different time periods, in different cultures and with a different consciousness. Anthroposophy works with questions of destiny and karma.

2) The idea of development: as the soul journeys and has experience, it develops. From one life to another the soul changes. And, critical to an understanding of Waldorf education, is the notion that each individual human soul is a mirror of the larger development of the human race as a whole. And, as each individual soul has partaken in this long journey, as humanity as a whole has changed and developed, so each of us as educators must ask ourselves the question, “Who is this child who stands before me and how can I help her to fulfill her destiny?”

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 If we understand our journey to be a shared one, if we understand that the development of humanity finds its echoes in the soul of each human being, then we immediately experience history as our story, as a unified theme which can help us understand each child’s individual journey as well as gain insight into humanity’s journey.

Thus, when one tells the Old Testament stories to a nine year old child, to a Third Grader, one can see that this has not so much to do with the stories of Jewish or Christian religions, but rather that these stories, with their powerful themes of relationships to authority and to the Law, are the stories of all children of that age, irregardless of their religion, culture, nationality and so on. At 9 years old, when the child is separating somewhat from his parents, this is one of the main questions that prickles at his soul, “Who am I and who are you?” And these stories nourish the soul of the 9 year old, letting him see how others related to these very questions.

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Waldorf is a way of educating children which can transcend national, cultural, religious and gender boundaries and speak to what lives in each human being. And further, because it is a form of soul education, it is uniquely able to speak to those souls who might live in bodies challenged by mental, emotional or physical disabilities or challenges. 

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We want our children to be able to understand our immensely complex world; to be able to navigate and use the amazing technology which will have advanced to an extent unimaginable to many of us by the time our children are grown. We want them to think clear thoughts which are warmed by compassion and to thus act rightly in the world. 

Our goal is to produce whole adults, people who have developed their feeling life, their will, their thinking abilities. In order to do this, we can take as our motto ‘the right thing at the right time’ and know that adult ways of feeling, doing and thinking are not appropriate for children. Rather, we can work with an anthroposophical picture of how children grow and learn and how the child metamorphoses into the adult. 

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In terms of developing whole thinking capacities, we can appreciate that the young child’s ways of thinking are very different from the adult’s and that only very gradually do the linear logical thought processes, which our society so values, become appropriate, rarely before age 12 or even later. By allowing the imaginative picture-making capacities of the young child to flourish we acknowledge that there are many ways of thinking available to human beings and, further, lay the foundation for these other, later ways of thinking. 

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 We can help strengthen and form our children’s feeling life, helping them attain balance and attunement to their inner life. By working artistically, by helping them strive for something higher, by giving them stories full of upright and moral deeds done by good people, we help the child ennoble her emotional life. Without such conscious attention to the inner feeling life, the child can grow up as a victim to his emotions, to his sympathies and antipathies. Compassion is our goal – not sentimentality or emotionalism.

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We can help the child develop her will forces by framing her life with healthy rhythms, especially in the first 7 year period. By instilling good habits, the child’s will forces gradually come under her conscious control. We further help her master her will forces as we give her opportunities to persevere, to be mindful, to bring attention to detail. Handwork, practicing a musical instrument, participation in household chores can all help with this.

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 By educating the whole child, by being mindful of her spiritual past and future, by seeing her personal biography as being connected to that of humanity as a whole, we can go far in creating socially conscious children with a strong sense of justice. If the stories of Japan, of the Netherlands, of Ghana, of the Sioux resonate so strongly in her soul that they are, indeed, her stories then we go far in instilling a brotherliness, a sense of comradeliness between our child and other peoples. And, if we have taken care to strengthen our child’s will, to develop his thinking and to bring a sense of balance and peace to his emotional life, then it is likely that our child will have the strength, ability and knowledge to be able to act effectively in the world. 

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Waldorf education helps us educate the whole child and helps the child feel connected to the earth and nature as well. By developing the child’s senses, by not dulling them with too much exposure to what is loud, synthetic, overstimulating, we help the child retain the kind of sensitivity which allows her to more fully explore and experience her world. By not rushing the child through her early years, through his all-important sense of oneness with nature and the world, by allowing him his dreamtime instead of hurrying to bring him into the adult world of information, one preserves a deep sense of connectedness and unity between the child and nature. And if one feels a connection to nature, how then could one grow up and exploit, destroy or otherwise treat as a commodity our home, our Earth?

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 There are, of course, no guarantees that a child will grow up to have this or that quality, ability or interest. But, as parents, we are in a good position to influence our children positively when we have at our disposal the vast pedagogical and therapeutic riches that Waldorf education has.

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 If we can hold a vision for our children out of our own inner certainty that the world is, indeed, a good, beautiful and truthful place to live; if, despite the obscene conflicts and horrors of our world, we know in our hearts and minds that understanding is possible, that compassion is possible and that right action is possible, then we stand the chance of our children growing up to be adults who take on these problems. Can we live with this truth of ‘the right thing at the right time’ so that our children grow to value process as much as goals, and to know that the end does not justify the means but is a reflection of the path taken?

Our hope is that our children will grow up and take up their life tasks with clear, heart-warmed thinking, that they will have the vision and ability to go beyond the tweedledee, tweedledum politics that is stagnating our communities, our country, our world. Our greatest hope for our children must be that, out of hope, out of faith in their fellow human beings, out of reverence for our blessed Earth, that they have the vision to create a more equitable, more free and more compassionate world.

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