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August 30, 2006

New article: School Readiness

We have just added a new article to the website Articles section:

School Readiness: A Developmental View by Earl J. Ogletree is taken from a 1990 issue of the British journal Steiner Education (then known as Child and Man) and looks at the issue of school readiness from the perspective of developmental psychology. It references the work of both Raymond and Dorothy Moore (Better Late than Early) and David Elkind (The Hurried Child).

We've added this to the website now because Donna is in the middle of writing something herself for the website on this issue.

-- Paul

August 22, 2006

New Talks: Fifth Grade and Unschooling & Waldorf

We've added a couple more talks (audio downloads in MP3 format) to the growing list of one-hour talks by Donna on a range of subjects relevant to Waldorf homeschooling and conscious parenting:
 
Unschooling and Waldorf  is an in-depth discussion on how unschooling and Waldorf views on the child and learning differ, and implications for how we parent and teach our children at home. This talk complements the Changing Face of Discipline talk particularly well.
 
Fifth Grade covers the harmony and balance expressed by the fifth grade curriculum; viewing geometry, Greek mythology and history, and botany as flowing out of each other; geography; math; language arts; and the vast Ancient Mythologies block. Working with themes instead of blocks.
 
It seems like this downloadable MP3 file format is working well for people. One unlooked for bonus has been the positive effect on recalcitrant husbands who haven't wanted to read anything about Waldorf education/parenting/homeschooling but are very happy to listen!
 
The downloads all last one hour and cost only $12 each: find them here.
 
-- Paul
 

August 21, 2006

Living Language - A Language Arts Curriuculum, Vol.1: Grades 1 - 5

We are pleased  to announce our latest publication, Living Language, Volume 1. This is a 300 page curriculum which will give any parent a deep grounding in the Waldorf approach to handwriting, speech and movement, writing and reading, spelling and grammar. There is an in-depth discussion of each of these subjects plus step-by-step lesson plans, activities, suggestions and ideas on how to bring these subjects to your child.
 
Much of the book is focused on the difference between the home environment and school. Our wish is to give the homeschooling parent enough background information so that she can develop a language arts program which will suit the individual needs of her child. We are sure that this book will ground parents sufficiently in a living approach to language that this will enhance and support their teaching, no matter what material they are working with!
 
Click here for many more details (including sample pages).
 
-- Paul and Donna

August 16, 2006

Publications Age Guide

We thought that parents might appreciate some guidance as to which of our publications would be most suitable for them according to the age of their children.  So we've added the Publications Age Guide to the website: it goes through grade by grade and also points out where exceptions might happen.

We hope it will prove to be useful. Of course, if after you've read everything on the website (including the sample pages and everything) you still have questions, don't hesitate to contact us: sales@christopherushomeschool.org

-- Paul

August 07, 2006

Dependency - Appropriate and Inappropriate

The time has come in my family for us to start looking at Life After Home. Will my eldest (presently 15) go to college? Might he travel and work first? Or might he go back to England to live? We have had many lively and enjoyable conversations about this and we all look forward to the next phase in our family life.
 
So it was a bit of a shock to me to realize how differently some people regard this stage of life. Looking through various college guides I came to see that a whole industry has sprung up devoted to helping parents when their children go off to college - and not just in terms of money! Parents, apparently have adjustment problems and need to be weaned off their children's lives!
 
According to one book I read, some American colleges now have specific workshops and seminars for parents dealing with topics such as :"Why You Shouldn't Phone Your Child's Professor When She Gets A Bad Grade"; "Why Phoning In the Middle of Lectures is a Bad Idea"; and "Drop In Visit? Don't Do It"!! There was quote after quote from various deans of various colleges all sharing about parents who accompany their children to choose classes, who arrange pre-college meetings with the parents of roommates and who, basically, seem unable to Let Go.
 
This is so strange to me! How is it that this generation of parents who is renowned for a culture of "independence" and "autonomy" in terms of their toddlers, who think 6 week old babies should be able to go to child care and 8 year olds should be able to travel alone on planes cannot see that by 18 or 19 childhood has passed into young adulthood and that these children NOW need to be independent!
 
It's as if dependency and independence have been reversed. There is so much fear in our culture of, on the one hand,  so-called "clingy" children who don't want to go to nursery school or who want to sleep in our beds when they're little and then, on the other hand, of  young people experimenting and learning to be their own selves. How many teens are radio tagged by pagers and cell phones? Sure - they can get  up to all sorts of things. But maybe - just maybe - if we held them close and kept them tightly in our auras and in our arms when they were tiny - even when they weren't so tiny - then maybe when they're teens we will be able to trust that their needs will have been met sufficiently so that they can now know how to make good decisions.  If real needs for dependency are met when developmentally appropriate, then perhaps they won't surface inappropriately when the young person should be able to feel good enough in himself to not have a yawning vacuum of loneliness that he then seeks to fill with drugs, precocious sex or computer game addiction.
 
Many people think that by giving children "freedom" when they are little they will then be able to practise this "skill" and grow up to understand  and practise freedom. But freedom cannot be given - it is something that grows in the soul and needs to be taken hold of when the time is right (I am trying desperately to keep this apolitical and not to draw some current parallels...!). Little ones are like rose buds - the gesture for them is of enfolding and carrying. This bud only opens slowly - but when it does we need to step aside and not caste our shadow over the fruit, thus preventing its full ripening.
 
I am glad my son is excited about the future. It is, after all, his future. If he wants to go to college, that's great. If he wants to work or travel, that's great. And if he wants to study or work in England and to make that his home - well, I will miss him keenly but I know that it is not my place to stand in his way. He might screw up - he might soar. That will be his problem or his victory. He might come to me for advice. Or he might not. But it is time for him now to move toward freedom as his father and I gradually withdraw our counsel over the next years. That freedom will be true freedom - for it will be taken by a young man secure in his ability to know who he is and what he needs to do in his life. His time of dependency will be long past and his age of independence will be beginning.

August 06, 2006

What is Waldorf?

Several people have contacted me recently, in private, expressing their concern that a number of individuals are setting themselves up as "Waldorf consultants" or sellers of Waldorf curriculum and that the relationship of these people to Waldorf is unclear. How to know what Waldorf really is?
 
This is a tricky question. As I say repeatedly in several of my books, Waldorf education is something which has been developed for a school situation. So as soon as one goes beyond the confines of a school and out into the wonderfully nebulous (and rightly so) world of homeschooling, then it can be very complicated indeed!
 
Back to the school situation, even there it can be far from clear. A good case in point is the high school where I work part time. It has a definite relationship to Waldorf education - we use a main lesson form, we teach Parzival and other classic Waldorf high school main lessons and there are real efforts to integrate a head, heart and hands approach.
 
But for me, none of those things in themselves make for a Waldorf school. We could even take the schedule, reading list and whatever else straight from a Waldorf high school like the one in Austin, Texas or Chicago, Illinois and it still wouldn't - in my book - be a Waldorf school.
 
For me, what makes a Waldorf school is the living intention of the faculty to work out of anthroposophy and to actively engage with what lies behind the forms, ie, with the pedagogy. Just to lighten that slightly, I should hasten to add that not all of the faculty would need to meet this requirement - but that there would be a College of Teachers who is trusted with the spiritual path of the school itself as an entity and that they work earnestly and deeply with the anthroposophy that informs their pedagogical decisions. Which could even mean that Parzival is not taught, that there are no main lessons - and so on.  It might very well be that the forms a faculty comes up with bear very little relationship to what has been done before. And that's exciting! (As I sidenote, I should also mention that AWSNA - the Association of Waldorf Schools of North America - has trademarked the title "Waldorf". Only schools and in-home childcare that have a relationship with them are allowed to use this label. This is because Waldorf is something - it has an identity, an integrity of its own. It is not whatever anyone wants to make of it!)
 
And how much more important would this spirit of creativity and of truly penetrating a child's needs be to a homeschooler! Who knows what each of us comes up with - and as homeschoolers we must be free to do whatever we think is best for our family. This of course means that much of what we do will not be at all like what is done in a Waldorf school (see my blog entry But is it Waldorf? ) - and that's great. And we can call ourselves Waldorf or Sort of Waldorf or Quasi Waldorf or Nothing At All. Whose business is it anyway?!
 
Certainly not mine! And many things I've done and many things I've advised people who consult with me and many things I suggest in my books might seem to be very far removed from Waldorf! But what I think I can, in truth, say, is that it arises out of who I am in terms of my life expereice with children and with Waldorf education. And, as part of that, with my studies as an anthroposophist.
 
To return to people who wish to sell their services labeled Waldorf, I  would need to ask : Why? What makes it Waldorf? And I would need to look carefully for indications that the person's work arises from an understanding of what lies beneath the curriculum and the particular orientation toward children.   I would also want to know about this person's experience with children other than her own. Has she led Waldorf toddler groups or taught in a Waldorf classroom? Does she run Waldorf educational programs? How does she know what might be good for a child other than her own? And how is this knowledge based in a Waldorf perspective? What is this person's life history? What is her relationship to Waldorf education - does it go beyond reading and into practical everyday application, not just in her own home but  in other situations? And has she truly penetrated not just Waldorf, but what underlies it? Thus, I would need to look for a relationship to anthroposophy.
 
Otherwise we are left with materials that might, for instance,  value unstructured play and no early academics - but that in itself does not mean it would be Waldorf. There are plenty of people from all sorts of educational backgrounds who might advocate many things in common with Waldorf - but that doesn't make them Waldorf!
 
And this might be just fine! I certainly have been influenced by some amazing people who have never heard of Waldorf (or think it's a salad) but who, out of their own integrity and deep experience with children have taught me many profound lessons. Or, on a simpler level, I have certainly happily purchased curriculum materials that were in no way Waldorf - but were inspiring or beautiful or fun or whatever! This is not about purity!
 
What it is about is clarity. I do not set myself up as a judge of what people do or don't do in their homeschools. But as a consultant I hear the refrain "I wish I had known before" so many times!  They say this often in regard to materials they have purchased or advice they were given. And so I put this blog entry out not to take a Holier Than Thou perspective but to share my thoughts with people on this subject so that they are better informed. And that is my business.