Well, Gabriel, my 14 year old, decided to return home. He spent a
semester and a little bit at the vaguely Waldorf high school where I
was teaching and has had enough. He has come home.
So now both my boys are homeschooling again! Well.... I'm not sure
what Daniel is doing really counts - he's doing a correspondence course
for his British exams so that he can get a job or perhaps go to
university once he's settled back in the UK. Gabriel, like us, has no
plans for moving and eventually wants to go to college here. Like his
brother, he could probably go to a very selective college - unlike his
brother, that is a path which interests him. Daniel has decided that he
needs grounding and wants to pursue a trade. He is interested in
working for the railroad. Or he might go into the Royal Navy, a path
which really challenges his anti-militaristic parents - though the
discipline and hard work would undoubtedly do him an enormous amount of
good. Daniel has always been a handful - largely because of him I have
never felt I have "the answer" when it comes to parenting and largely
because of him I am very good at strategizing ways of dealing with
difficult youngsters with clients! He has also helped me be humble - I
might be an expert when it comes to working with children and teens -
but he helps me remember that parenting one is a totally different
kettle of fish!!
Anyway, he is at home studying - he also goes to the high school
to take Spanish. Gabriel will do most of his work here at home but will
take a couple of classes at the school as well. He will continue with
French and is finishing both a dance class (tango, would you believe!!)
and a pottery class. Once they finish he'll join a theatre class. I am
pleased he can do those things at his old school as they are certainly
not opportunities I can provide at home (sorry - I don't tango with
anybody!).
There are many reasons why Gabriel came home - some have to do
with the school itself. But his main reason is that he likes to study
things in depth and that was not possible at school. This was in part
due to a school which is not formed very well - there are far too many
classes and the main lessons are too short (they are all 3 weeks long).
But the nature of school itself does tend to conspire against deep
study - even in a real Waldorf school. He tried out school before - he
spent a semester and a half in our local Waldorf school in 5th into 6th
grade. His main complaint was that he had no time to read books - they
had 30 minutes two or three times a week to read - but many of the
children were very restless and noisy and Gabriel got very distracted -
and when one is used to being able to read uninterrupted for hours at a
time, reading in 30 minute bursts just doesn't cut the cake!
So... we are Real Bona Fide homeschoolers again! And that means I
will be sharing with you all what we do! This is good news for the
range of curriculum we are orividing as I not only have the high school
lessons I taught at school to draw from for publications, but I will be
designing lessons for Gabriel and will be churning them out over the
years too!
I will also be regularly blogging
in the meantime focusing on what I am doing with Gabriel. There are no
other Waldorf high school homeschoolers doing this as far as I know
(and if you know differently please tell me about it!) so I anticipate
this will be of great service to those few lonely souls trying to do
Waldorf high school at home. If you know of any place where this blog
can be listed where others will find it, do so! Please tell other
Waldorf (or open to Waldorf) high school at home people about my blog.
Let's get the word out there so people will be less isolated!
Ah yes. Finding THE Answer is akin to the finding the Holy Grail as a mother isn't it? We never are completely sure. So much of it is a stepping out in faith. Does keep us humble!
I hope your high school at home is everything you wish for. : )
Posted by:Kim | March 26, 2008 at 11:43 PM
Thanks Kim - and any and all companionship along the Way is most gratefully accepted!
Posted by:donna | April 03, 2008 at 09:18 AM